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Self Love Boundaries
5 Valentines Tips That Are Free and Fun
Communication Tips for Couples
"Stop Trying to Fix Yourself, Your Not Broken"

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Dr. Eva's Mission

Dr. Eva's Mission

Why does my practice exist:Mymissionis to help guide couples towards emotional attunement and repair;  to help them heal, reconnect, and enhance their overall physical and emotional intimacy. Mygoalwith every client is to normalize the human experience and to inspire increased personal and relational awareness. Myvisionis to be a change agent for a more emotionally aware and vulnerable community.
 
My cause:Many people struggle with

Self Love Boundaries

"Self Love Boundaries"

We (human beings) live in a world where we spend most of our lives trying to get approval or acceptance from others. We are social beings, so it's normal. But many of us don't think about the relationship we have with ourselves; with our own self approval or what I like to call, "self love boundaries!"

We bend over backwards, often times sacrificing our boundaries and peace of mind to get someone to like us, to make someone proud, and often times we do it to feel needed or loved.

5 Valentines Tips That Are Free and Fun

5 Valentines Tips That Are Free and Fun

As we say goodbye to January, the first month of 2015, I find myself reflecting on the year past and the year that awaits. We are about to embark on the month of February, the Hallmark month of love for all the Valentines lovers, and I'm thinking some love tips would be fun to kick start the 2nd month of the new year off right!

5 Tips for This Valentines that are sure to make your lover "feel" loved and you don't have to spend a dime! As a couples specialist, I hear many couples concerned about spending money of Valentines day, but who says you need to spend money to be romantic ❤!

What Couples Therapy Is Not

Couples Therapy is not "necessarily" about the issues you are having, but rather about what changes you'd like to make in order to ensure that your relationship is going in the direction you both prefer.
 
Couples Therapy is not about what you "don't want," but rather what you "do want."
 
Couples Therapy is not about who's "right" and who is "wrong," it is about respect for differences, awareness, and growth.

Falling in Love Everyday

Inspiration for today's blog: "Fall in Love Everyday"
 
So, I got to thinking about the quote "fall in love everyday" and I began to wonder about it's meaning. My initial thoughts were about "being present" so that you can allow yourself to admire your partner and "fall in love everyday." But then I started to sink into the reality that appreciation for one's self and partner can be challenging in the face of daily stressors. Most of the couples I speak with make statements of feeling "too tired, too stressed, too not in the mood.